Choosing My Language Carefully: Uprooting Social Stigma

Choosing My Language Carefully: Uprooting Social Stigma

Language Matters: Choosing How to Speak about My Hunger Drive

My story centers around drilling into a deep understanding of my hunger drive, so I could lose more than half my weight – a number well into triple digits.

I frequently talk about my hunger drive and the way hunger works in me. I have deliberately chosen these to help me speak as I break my silence about transforming my shadows around weight.

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Dates for a Sweeter Life: Living Without Processed Sugar

Dates for a Sweeter Life: Living Without Processed Sugar

My Dates with Dates: An Overview

Dates are one of the ways I live a sweeter life without processed sugar.

These are medjool dates, and they are my favorite. I have dates almost every day. Dates are calorie dense, so I have to be careful how many I have in a day.

I often add dates to my smoothies and blended salads. Dates add a delicious sweetness, enough so I can get more vegetables into my mix, especially leafy greens.

I have also discovered that I love dates as part of my soups. I often blend a few dates with a few nuts to add as a paste into my tomato-based soups to help add flavor.

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Defy My Own expectations: Travel Edition

Defy My Own expectations: Travel Edition

Choosing Health When Traveling

Making healthy choices when I travel has always been difficult. I have failed so many times that I still expect to fail. So, this trip is about defying my own expectations.

This week, I travel for work. I have distinct struggles before, during, and after a trip. I was doing okay until I heard I was going to be traveling into Hurricane Hilary.

I am not sure what about Hurricane Hilary prompted me to run for the cashews and bananas, but she did! And, so I failed. But, I failed according to plan.

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Eat When Hungry: An Overview of My Transform Shadows Framework

Eat When Hungry: An Overview of My Transform Shadows Framework

My Framework for Personal Change

This is an overview of my Transform Shadows Framework. The top part helps me tell my story about the mental actions that I use to be successful in losing weight and maintaining weight loss.

These mental actions may help you guide change within yourself. I use these for my self-talk in many ways. Try them and see if they work for you:

NAME Your Shadows

FACE Your Shadows

UNDERSTAND Your Shadows

FIGHT Your Shadows

REFRAME Your Shadows

TRANSCEND Your Shadows

I wish I transcended my shadows all the time, but my life does not work that way. When things are easy and effortless in my lifestyle, those moments of transcendence are glorious.

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Eat When Hungry: My Launch of a Signature Series with Dr. Doug Lisle

Eat When Hungry: My Launch of a Signature Series with Dr. Doug Lisle

Eat When Hungry: My Journey Through a Complex Labyrinth

Three years ago, I started working in earnest on creating educational resources that felt like what I was experiencing in my personal transformation of losing half my weight. Transform Shadows is the result of that work, and it continues to evolve. Today marks another step.

My goal has been to create a bank of free educational resources. The 3:00 am resources. The resources that you seek when you look for a different way of living, a healthier way of living, a way of living that you know is best for you. A way of living built on truth, not gimmicks. I know how this works. I lived this life. For years.

Today, my bank of resources broadens with the launch of my first video interview. A very special guest, Dr. Doug Lisle, joins me for this signature series titled Eat When Hungry: My Epic Journey Through a Complex Labyrinth. Dr. Lisle is a well-known expert in the plant-based world, and his work has helped me in my own journey.

Flipping the script for an interview like this, Dr. Lisle actually interviews me about my journey to lose half my weight and transform my shadows.

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